This Kiss! Kissing Tips
You bit my lip !
Isn’t it interesting how we all think we know how to kiss until we are
faced with the inevitable question, ‘Why did you bite my lips?’ Well,
there are many issues involved in kissing that each one should be able
to know. From the chemistry before the kiss to the physics in the
balance, and the motion in the touch and brush of the lips, a kiss is
not just an act; it is an essential way of showing feelings, and
expressing oneself to another without words. Actions speak louder than
words! A good kiss would involve proper touch, perfect timing and
watchfulness in the event of a beginner to avoid injuries or
embarrassment.
Timing – is it perfect?
It all evolves around timing. What is the mood like, what is the
situation, where is the kiss intended and why? These are questions that
should be answered before any kiss. Each of these factors heavily
influences the effect of the kiss. One wrong moment is all it takes to
destroy an otherwise perfect evening. Many teens feel uncomfortable when
they first make out because they do not know what they are expected to
do or what to expect from the kiss itself. To understand this, you must
read the mood in your partner, or friend or date, and understand that
the kiss is required. The tilt of the head for example would be
sufficient to tell you that they are prepared for the kiss.
Eye Contact – the dead give away!
From time immemorial, it has been known that the eyes give away the
feelings of the heart. Therefore the kiss should be in tandem with the
expression of the eye. Look deeply into your partner’s eyes and read
their feelings from there, the shy look away expresses the desire for
the kiss. When the eyes are soft and almost moist, a kiss would be more
deeply felt. Reading the eyes would set you apart in keeping the perfect
time, and giving the kiss with full emotion.
The touch – Ouch that Hurt!
Contact can never be dismissed. When you want to give a kiss, never
forget to touch the person you in certain ways. Fingering the lips
softly, brushing the cheeks and holding the hands, are all touches that
will enhance the kiss greatly. Holding hands in itself leads to the flow
of emotions from one person to the other. This is one of my experiences.
As a little kid, I saw a young couple saying goodbye at the railway
station. They were standing very close to each other on the platform.
The young ma looked deeply into the ladies eyes and gave an awesome
smile. As they looked at each other, the man took both the ladies hands
and clasped them in his moving them slowly until they touched his chest,
at this point the lady gave a deep breath and tilted her head. The young
man then moved his forefinger to her left cheek, I could almost hear the
fast breathing of the lady, he brushed his lips slowly against her lips
and then finally planted the greatest French kiss I have ever seen! Than
scene has never left my mind! If it made a great impression to a ten
year old, how do you think it impacted on the young lady?
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